Usually, I start to look at the world around me and then look at how it’s affecting me. And then I often think about how much I wish things were different or that people would try harder, and then I try to examine past events that are currently repeating. I think sexuality is one of the markers of how we are feeling, coping, etc, and I like to examine how the stressors of the world and certain events are affecting how one feels in their body and mind.